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That leaves 90 minutes or so to straighten up, do laundry and catch a little TV. By that time my wife is exhausted, so nighttime sex is rare. Making dates danmit out of the question, and planning special weekends seems unnecessary. I know that busy people are making time for sex.

Why not hire a babysitter on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon to take the kids to a movie? What about getting the in-laws to take the kids for a weekend? Or trading off with another couple? You schedule everything else. And sex leads to more sex. Some will disagree with the following statement: Illusion promises Single woman want hot sex Chandler Quebec but rejection destroys it over and over again.

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Perhaps a clearer sexual signal should be installed in the relationship.

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Fair enough, but perhaps this deflection is only an excuse for something else. Perhaps there is a real underlying issue that needs exposing and discussing more. Sexless marriage dammit any case, the doll concept is a good thing to bring to the relationship table because if it exposes such a problem, professional counselling may assist with Sexless marriage dammit decent and lasting repair job.

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